@devilman666 she could, they both could. Plenty of my single girlfriends … Yeah I understand that a lot more when you say it that way. Should we just ignore our interest in each other until times get better? Team work makes the dream work After marriage it becomes our money, not his or mine, the only difference is we’re not married. Can he and some friends live together to same money? I’m not refusing, I’m insisting. Ima be like everyone else on this topic: "whaaa? Yes.

This can only end badly. The only problem people seem to have with it is that I’ve known him almost 8 months, we don’t live together, and we’re not engaged yet. Which is why my family dislikes the idea. I didn't have to read much of this to say no. In fact, it's only fair to share costs of things like meals, entertainment, and even rent if you move in together. However, the pressure from people and my family is making me question whether this is okay or not. He doesn't make enough to be allowed a girlfriend, dump him now and go find a real man. Your boyfriend paid for escort services WHILE he was financially supporting his lazy ex-girlfriend, who he is still supporting while he is dating YOU, and you haven’t left him yet?! I’m 18 and he’s 22 (don’t freak out 16 is legal in my state lol). Sheesh. He can’t afford living on his own right now. We have our parents blessings, so it’s safe to say we’re getting serious. He moved here about 1 year ago, and has been working full time since, he hasn’t really made any friends.

Together you will make about $2500 is that enough for you to live and survive. See... my question about all this "female shit" and "male shit"... i just twist the shit around. Congrats. If he's okay with it by it shouldn't be a habit unless that's gonna be permanent I personally don't think you should. My question is, is it okay to help your boyfriend out financially before marriage? You’re planning marriage at 17/18... with a guy who’s 22... Jesus... $10 says you’re divorced within a year If you want to but don’t spoil him or do it too often. £1200 isn’t really considered good in uk. I have been seeing my boyfriend for 3 years. Depends on you. well then do it... and Remind me never to move to seattle.
By Jasmine Vaughn-Hall.

My boyfriend is six figure.

Do not help him. It doesn’t matter who it is getting them used to a pattern and then suddenly breaking the loop will confuse them. There's no reason for the man to pay for everything when you both have jobs. What do you all think? If YOU were in his position... would YOU like to be helped financially? He does pay when we go out but he has never once offered to help financially when I express my financial concern to him. We’re planning on getting married within the next 8 months, so pretty soon. I talked with my family, and they have a very traditional mindset, so to them it was weird. Yet, there are still things I need that I can't afford.

Do you expect him to do housework or will you insist on doing all of it? To many young people these days move in together way to fast only for them to move right back out and straight to mom and dads again. I’ll be 19 in less than half a year, can’t judge a relationship like that from one paragraph. Your feelings mean nothing, the only important thing is how much money he has." Yes. If it doesn't hurt you financially and you care for him and most importantly isn't a regular occurrence, then yeah help if you can. I think it’s different in the to the tho Americans seem to have their own money where as in the uk a couple is like a team money in 1 pot so to speak. A girl that sticks with the guy during tough times is the one that's a keeper. We live near Seattle, it’s pretty much as expensive as California, rent alone can’t be found cheaper than 1000 (without being in a very shady area), that with food, gas, and other bills comes out to a lot :/ but yeah! He will eventually expect it and would be very confused if you stop after continuing for so long.
I’m fully down to help him financially, I just wanted outside opinions. Fucking hell.